Pregnancy Loss or Infant Death Can Be
Life Shattering

Thought Field Therapy^® is a powerful method that can help you move beyond your pain to a level of comfort and acceptance

If you have experienced loss due to miscarriage or the death of your infant or wished-for child you likely can relate to some of the following:

You feel as if your world has exploded.

Nothing makes sense right now; you can’t believe you have lost your child. You feel as if you can’t stand the emotional pain, or perhaps you feel numb, unable to feel anything. You feel as if you have no control over your emotions. One minute you feel in charge, the next minute the tears are unstoppable. It feels as if someone else, or something else, is directing your life. Confused as you may feel, you do know the way you feel is not the “you” you know. Still, you feel powerless to do anything to feel better.

You wonder if you did something wrong.

Remember the glass of wine you had at that party? You forgot to take your vitamins every day! When first pregnant, you questioned whether you really wanted to be a parent. You gained all that extra weight after being cautioned not to! Maybe you shouldn’t have had sex when you did; your husband may even feel guilty about this now. Thoughts like these may race through your mind as you struggle to make sense of the death of your child.

You feel as if no one really understands; you feel alone.

You don’t think you can hear it said one more time, “I know just how you feel.” “No, you don’t! This is my experience and you don’t know how it feels!” Even when you and your partner talk about your lost baby, it sometimes seems like two totally different experiences. “We don’t cope with this in the same way.”

You feel angry, disappointed, hurt, and left out.

You want to lash out, in fact you do! You know you are hurting people who care about you but it feels as if you can’t stop yourself. You may feel angry with the whole world. You wonder how is it that everyone around you seems happy to go on as if nothing has happened. Don’t they realize nothing is the same?

You feel the need to talk about your baby; maybe even loved ones don’t want to listen or don’t know what to say.

Isn’t there anyone who can listen without saying, “You are young; you can always have another baby.” “It is God’s will.” “Some people aren’t meant to be parents anyway.” “You never took your baby home; how could you have loved her?” “Now you have a little angel in heaven.” “You need to remember how very fortunate you are; you already have living children.” These comments, perhaps well-intended, make you feel like your experience isn’t validated, making you feel even more alone.

There is a way to feel more like yourself again.

There is a way to help make your world feel upright again.

Thought Field Therapy can help.

Thought Field Therapy (TFT) is a cutting-edge procedure that will help you conquer the emotional turmoil you feel over the loss of your infant or wished-for child. It is a powerful, drug-free method of helping to heal your grief. TFT can provide feelings of renewal and ease your pain quickly and safely without having to go through months or years of therapy to resolve your grief.

Whether your loss happened 6 days ago or 40 years ago, you can heal and move beyond the pain.

Although you will never forget your unborn or infant child, you can move on with your life feeling freer, with a greater sense of peace and acceptance.

Thought Field Therapy helps you tap into your own Personal Therapeutic Resources, your natural healing ability that is within you. It speeds recovery from loss and helps you regain a sense of control over your loss.

The Benefits of Counseling with Personal Therapeutic Resources and Thought Field Therapy:

Your chaotic world of grief, with its overwhelming emotions and distress, will begin to lose its turbulence.

• You can feel your anger start to lose its power.
• You can feel your sadness begin to dissipate.
• You can begin to experience a sense of control in your life.

You can expect to grieve the loss of your baby without the burden of inappropriate guilt.

• You can experience immediate elimination of irrational guilt. Some guilt is generally associated with loss.
• You will discover that letting go of the emotional pain of grief is not being disloyal to your child. Nor does it mean that you will forget your infant or unborn child.

You can begin to feel less alone.

• You can begin to hear responses of loved ones and friends as they are most likely intended to be heard.
• You can be able to hear with more clarity the experience of your partner in losing his wished-for-child.

You will smile and laugh again – when you are ready.

• You can be in charge of your life, rather than having the overwhelming distressful emotions of grief directing your life.
• You can feel calmer, more accepting, and in control.

You will be able to think more clearly about the future, whatever that future may be – when you are ready.

• Your thinking will be clearer without the burden of overwhelming distressful emotions.
• You will be able, at the appropriate time for you, to make decisions about whether you want another child and options for doing that.

You will begin to experience your power to ask for what you need.

• You can begin to ask for what you need. You may need to hear your wished-for-child’s name so you know your child has not been forgotten. You may need to ask for patience until you can smile and laugh again.
• You can learn to use the power of TFT in your daily life to reduce stress and negative emotions on an ongoing basis.

You Can Find Your Way Through Your Grief.
I Know Because I Have Been There.

Many years ago, almost 40 now, perhaps before you were born, I too lost a wished-for child. I believe I know the depth of grief you are feeling. I believe I know the unhelpful responses that you are hearing from well-intended friends and family members. I believe I know how much you hurt.

I believe, with my personal experience combined with my professional training in therapy, I can help you to find your way from pain and despair to renewal. At some point, you may even begin to see something positive start to emerge from this devastating loss.

As a Thought Field Therapist, I Can Help
You Move Through and Beyond Your Pain

As a TFT therapist through my practice, Personal Therapeutic Resources, I can offer you Thought Field Therapy at-a-distance. This means we work over the telephone from the comforts of your home or office. It doesn’t matter where in the world you live. TFT offered over the phone is effective because the basic cause of what is upsetting you is carried in your voice, not in the words, but in the voice itself.

We will work together to resolve your grief through this specialized voice technology. Doing therapy on the telephone allows us to help you heal without the inconvenience of having to travel to see me in person. You will discover voice-directed Thought Field Therapy is effective; many, many persons world-wide attest to this fact.

Life can be good again without the emotional traumas of your loss directing your life. Using your own Personal Therapeutic Resources within you and Thought Field Therapy, you can expedite the arrival of the day when you once again feel happy and optimistic about your future.

Get Help with TFT Risk Free

Call me in the US at 919-562-7905 for a 15-minute free consultation or e-mail me at laux5737@centurylink.net to schedule an appointment. Please put the word “Appointment” in the subject line.

Lois Sugarman is a Thought Field Therapist who specializes in therapy services to those who have experienced loss through miscarriage or the death of an unborn or infant child. She works with clients across the globe through telephone and resides in Wake Forest, near Raleigh, North Carolina.